{"id":7738,"date":"2026-10-16T13:31:18","date_gmt":"2026-10-16T13:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/?p=7738"},"modified":"2026-10-16T13:31:18","modified_gmt":"2026-10-16T13:31:18","slug":"what-dad-found-under-the-pool-and-the-reason-he-never-told-me-until-the-morning-it-was-already-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/?p=7738","title":{"rendered":"What Dad Found Under The Pool, And The Reason He Never Told Me Until The Morning It Was Already Over"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dad&nbsp;found&nbsp;the&nbsp;old&nbsp;boundary&nbsp;markers:&nbsp;iron&nbsp;pins&nbsp;driven&nbsp;into&nbsp;the&nbsp;ground&nbsp;in&nbsp;1962.&nbsp;Two&nbsp;had&nbsp;been&nbsp;completely&nbsp;encased&nbsp;in&nbsp;the&nbsp;pool\u2019s&nbsp;concrete&nbsp;foundation&nbsp;when&nbsp;it&nbsp;was&nbsp;built&nbsp;in&nbsp;1987.&nbsp;The&nbsp;pool&nbsp;extended&nbsp;eighteen&nbsp;inches&nbsp;over&nbsp;the&nbsp;original&nbsp;property&nbsp;line,&nbsp;meaning&nbsp;part&nbsp;of&nbsp;it&nbsp;sat&nbsp;on&nbsp;land&nbsp;that&nbsp;never&nbsp;legally&nbsp;belonged&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;house\u2019s&nbsp;owners,&nbsp;including&nbsp;Aldric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The&nbsp;elderly&nbsp;woman\u2019s&nbsp;name&nbsp;was&nbsp;Loretta.&nbsp;Her&nbsp;father&nbsp;had&nbsp;owned&nbsp;the&nbsp;neighboring&nbsp;parcel&nbsp;and&nbsp;left&nbsp;it&nbsp;to&nbsp;her&nbsp;when&nbsp;he&nbsp;died.&nbsp;The&nbsp;land&nbsp;had&nbsp;remained&nbsp;undeveloped&nbsp;for&nbsp;decades,&nbsp;but&nbsp;Loretta&nbsp;had&nbsp;never&nbsp;sold&nbsp;it&nbsp;or&nbsp;granted&nbsp;an&nbsp;easement.&nbsp;Three&nbsp;successive&nbsp;owners&nbsp;had&nbsp;ignored&nbsp;the&nbsp;encroachment,&nbsp;whether&nbsp;through&nbsp;ignorance&nbsp;or&nbsp;convenience.&nbsp;Loretta&nbsp;had&nbsp;known&nbsp;for&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years&nbsp;and&nbsp;filed&nbsp;a&nbsp;complaint&nbsp;in&nbsp;1994&nbsp;that&nbsp;went&nbsp;nowhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When&nbsp;Dad&nbsp;called&nbsp;her,&nbsp;she&nbsp;drove&nbsp;four&nbsp;hours&nbsp;carrying&nbsp;a&nbsp;folder&nbsp;of&nbsp;documents&nbsp;she&nbsp;had&nbsp;kept&nbsp;since&nbsp;before&nbsp;I&nbsp;was&nbsp;born.&nbsp;The&nbsp;police&nbsp;were&nbsp;already&nbsp;there&nbsp;because&nbsp;Dad&nbsp;had&nbsp;reported&nbsp;the&nbsp;encroachment&nbsp;the&nbsp;previous&nbsp;evening&nbsp;and&nbsp;requested&nbsp;a&nbsp;property&nbsp;line&nbsp;inspection.&nbsp;Although&nbsp;it&nbsp;was&nbsp;a&nbsp;civil&nbsp;matter,&nbsp;officers&nbsp;also&nbsp;discovered&nbsp;that&nbsp;Aldric&nbsp;had&nbsp;never&nbsp;obtained&nbsp;permits&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;original&nbsp;pool&nbsp;construction,&nbsp;creating&nbsp;a&nbsp;separate&nbsp;building&nbsp;code&nbsp;violation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aldric&nbsp;paid&nbsp;the&nbsp;$8,400&nbsp;within&nbsp;forty-eight&nbsp;hours.&nbsp;His&nbsp;attorney&nbsp;called&nbsp;my&nbsp;father,&nbsp;not&nbsp;me.&nbsp;Coralie&nbsp;never&nbsp;called&nbsp;at&nbsp;all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dad&nbsp;explained&nbsp;why&nbsp;he&nbsp;had&nbsp;kept&nbsp;his&nbsp;discovery&nbsp;secret&nbsp;for&nbsp;nine&nbsp;days.&nbsp;He&nbsp;needed&nbsp;three&nbsp;days&nbsp;to&nbsp;confirm&nbsp;the&nbsp;markers&nbsp;were&nbsp;genuine,&nbsp;and&nbsp;afterward,&nbsp;he&nbsp;didn\u2019t&nbsp;want&nbsp;me&nbsp;carrying&nbsp;that&nbsp;knowledge&nbsp;into&nbsp;work.&nbsp;He&nbsp;knew&nbsp;Coralie&nbsp;might&nbsp;threaten&nbsp;my&nbsp;job.&nbsp;He&nbsp;wanted&nbsp;me&nbsp;genuinely&nbsp;surprised&nbsp;because,&nbsp;as&nbsp;he\u2019d&nbsp;learned&nbsp;over&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years,&nbsp;the&nbsp;calmest&nbsp;person&nbsp;in&nbsp;a&nbsp;confrontation&nbsp;is&nbsp;often&nbsp;the&nbsp;one&nbsp;who&nbsp;already&nbsp;knows&nbsp;how&nbsp;everything&nbsp;will&nbsp;end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&nbsp;left&nbsp;Aldric\u2019s&nbsp;employment&nbsp;the&nbsp;following&nbsp;week.&nbsp;He&nbsp;hadn\u2019t&nbsp;fired&nbsp;me.&nbsp;I\u2019d&nbsp;simply&nbsp;watched&nbsp;him&nbsp;use&nbsp;my&nbsp;livelihood&nbsp;as&nbsp;leverage&nbsp;against&nbsp;my&nbsp;family,&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;refused&nbsp;to&nbsp;work&nbsp;somewhere&nbsp;that&nbsp;treated&nbsp;loyalty&nbsp;as&nbsp;a&nbsp;weakness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dad&nbsp;never&nbsp;mentioned&nbsp;the&nbsp;incident&nbsp;again.&nbsp;He&nbsp;repaired&nbsp;the&nbsp;pool,&nbsp;collected&nbsp;his&nbsp;money,&nbsp;and&nbsp;contacted&nbsp;Loretta,&nbsp;giving&nbsp;her&nbsp;the&nbsp;information&nbsp;she\u2019d&nbsp;needed&nbsp;for&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&nbsp;charged&nbsp;her&nbsp;nothing&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;call.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dad&nbsp;found&nbsp;the&nbsp;old&nbsp;boundary&nbsp;markers:&nbsp;iron&nbsp;pins&nbsp;driven&nbsp;into&nbsp;the&nbsp;ground&nbsp;in&nbsp;1962.&nbsp;Two&nbsp;had&nbsp;been&nbsp;completely&nbsp;encased&nbsp;in&nbsp;the&nbsp;pool\u2019s&nbsp;concrete&nbsp;foundation&nbsp;when&nbsp;it&nbsp;was&nbsp;built&nbsp;in&nbsp;1987.&nbsp;The&nbsp;pool&nbsp;extended&nbsp;eighteen&nbsp;inches&nbsp;over&nbsp;the&nbsp;original&nbsp;property&nbsp;line,&nbsp;meaning&nbsp;part&nbsp;of&nbsp;it&nbsp;sat&nbsp;on&nbsp;land&nbsp;that&nbsp;never&nbsp;legally&nbsp;belonged&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;house\u2019s&nbsp;owners,&nbsp;including&nbsp;Aldric. The&nbsp;elderly&nbsp;woman\u2019s&nbsp;name&nbsp;was&nbsp;Loretta.&nbsp;Her&nbsp;father&nbsp;had&nbsp;owned&nbsp;the&nbsp;neighboring&nbsp;parcel&nbsp;and&nbsp;left&nbsp;it&nbsp;to&nbsp;her&nbsp;when&nbsp;he&nbsp;died.&nbsp;The&nbsp;land&nbsp;had&nbsp;remained&nbsp;undeveloped&nbsp;for&nbsp;decades,&nbsp;but&nbsp;Loretta&nbsp;had&nbsp;never&nbsp;sold&nbsp;it&nbsp;or&nbsp;granted&nbsp;an&nbsp;easement.&nbsp;Three&nbsp;successive&nbsp;owners&nbsp;had&nbsp;ignored&nbsp;the&nbsp;encroachment,&nbsp;whether&nbsp;through&nbsp;ignorance&nbsp;or&nbsp;convenience.&nbsp;Loretta&nbsp;had&nbsp;known&nbsp;for&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years&nbsp;and&nbsp;filed&nbsp;a&nbsp;complaint&nbsp;in&nbsp;1994&nbsp;that&nbsp;went&nbsp;nowhere. When&nbsp;Dad&nbsp;called&nbsp;her,&nbsp;she&nbsp;drove&nbsp;four&nbsp;hours&nbsp;carrying&nbsp;a&nbsp;folder&nbsp;of&nbsp;documents&nbsp;she&nbsp;had&nbsp;kept&nbsp;since&nbsp;before&nbsp;I&nbsp;was&nbsp;born.&nbsp;The&nbsp;police&nbsp;were&nbsp;already&nbsp;there&nbsp;because&nbsp;Dad&nbsp;had&nbsp;reported&nbsp;the&nbsp;encroachment&nbsp;the&nbsp;previous&nbsp;evening&nbsp;and&nbsp;requested&nbsp;a&nbsp;property&nbsp;line&nbsp;inspection.&nbsp;Although&nbsp;it&nbsp;was&nbsp;a&nbsp;civil&nbsp;matter,&nbsp;officers&nbsp;also&nbsp;discovered&nbsp;that&nbsp;Aldric&nbsp;had&nbsp;never&nbsp;obtained&nbsp;permits&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;original&nbsp;pool&nbsp;construction,&nbsp;creating&nbsp;a&nbsp;separate&nbsp;building&nbsp;code&nbsp;violation. Aldric&nbsp;paid&nbsp;the&nbsp;$8,400&nbsp;within&nbsp;forty-eight&nbsp;hours.&nbsp;His&nbsp;attorney&nbsp;called&nbsp;my&nbsp;father,&nbsp;not&nbsp;me.&nbsp;Coralie&nbsp;never&nbsp;called&nbsp;at&nbsp;all. Dad&nbsp;explained&nbsp;why&nbsp;he&nbsp;had&nbsp;kept&nbsp;his&nbsp;discovery&nbsp;secret&nbsp;for&nbsp;nine&nbsp;days.&nbsp;He&nbsp;needed&nbsp;three&nbsp;days&nbsp;to&nbsp;confirm&nbsp;the&nbsp;markers&nbsp;were&nbsp;genuine,&nbsp;and&nbsp;afterward,&nbsp;he&nbsp;didn\u2019t&nbsp;want&nbsp;me&nbsp;carrying&nbsp;that&nbsp;knowledge&nbsp;into&nbsp;work.&nbsp;He&nbsp;knew&nbsp;Coralie&nbsp;might&nbsp;threaten&nbsp;my&nbsp;job.&nbsp;He&nbsp;wanted&nbsp;me&nbsp;genuinely&nbsp;surprised&nbsp;because,&nbsp;as&nbsp;he\u2019d&nbsp;learned&nbsp;over&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years,&nbsp;the&nbsp;calmest&nbsp;person&nbsp;in&nbsp;a&nbsp;confrontation&nbsp;is&nbsp;often&nbsp;the&nbsp;one&nbsp;who&nbsp;already&nbsp;knows&nbsp;how&nbsp;everything&nbsp;will&nbsp;end. I&nbsp;left&nbsp;Aldric\u2019s&nbsp;employment&nbsp;the&nbsp;following&nbsp;week.&nbsp;He&nbsp;hadn\u2019t&nbsp;fired&nbsp;me.&nbsp;I\u2019d&nbsp;simply&nbsp;watched&nbsp;him&nbsp;use&nbsp;my&nbsp;livelihood&nbsp;as&nbsp;leverage&nbsp;against&nbsp;my&nbsp;family,&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;refused&nbsp;to&nbsp;work&nbsp;somewhere&nbsp;that&nbsp;treated&nbsp;loyalty&nbsp;as&nbsp;a&nbsp;weakness. Dad&nbsp;never&nbsp;mentioned&nbsp;the&nbsp;incident&nbsp;again.&nbsp;He&nbsp;repaired&nbsp;the&nbsp;pool,&nbsp;collected&nbsp;his&nbsp;money,&nbsp;and&nbsp;contacted&nbsp;Loretta,&nbsp;giving&nbsp;her&nbsp;the&nbsp;information&nbsp;she\u2019d&nbsp;needed&nbsp;for&nbsp;thirty&nbsp;years. He&nbsp;charged&nbsp;her&nbsp;nothing&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;call.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":173,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7738","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7738"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7738\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7739,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7738\/revisions\/7739"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7738"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7738"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bzerbros.fun\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7738"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}